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    Cover of Against love

    Against love

    Laura Kipnis · 2003

    "Against Love examines the meaning and cultural significance of adultery, arguing that perhaps the question concerns not only the private dilemma of whether or not to be faithful but also the purpose of this much-vaunted fidelity. It offers no easy answers. Rather, it intends to engage you in a commonsensical and brave examination of the plight of the modern personality, caught between the vicissitudes of desire and the decrees of social conformity."--Jacket.

    Religion & Spirituality
    Open LibraryAmazon
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    1. DeusExMachinaDec 2010
      "Against Love: a polemic", by Laura Kipnis.

      The title is a little misleading, since the book is not against love per se, but speaks about coupledom. It does not want to give answers, but only ask questions and it's a good book to think about our love affairs.

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    2. mrsfieldsJul 2010
      Amen. An entertaining polemic that discusses some of these issues is "Against Love" by Laura Kipnis.

      It seems to me that conservatives - if they really do stand for "small government" - would oppose the concept of legalized marriages, in which we are all expected to submit our personal relationship for approval by the government. If that's not intrusive state power, what is? Yet even the most diehard libertarians rarely question the validity of state-sanctioned marriage.

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