Name: The Gift of Fear
ISBN: 9780440508830

The Gift of Fear

True fear is a gift. Unwarranted fear is a curse. Learn how to tell the difference. A date won't take "no" for an answer. The new nanny gives a mother an uneasy feeling. A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers unsolicited help. The threat of violence surrounds us every day. But we can protect ourselves, by learning to trust--and act on--our gut instincts. In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the nation's leading expert on violent behavior, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger--before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including...how to act when approached by a stranger...when you should fear someone close to you...what to do if you are being stalked...how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls...the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person...and more. Learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.

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tikkunOct 2024

When I Say No I Feel Guilty.

Never Split The Difference.

The Gift of Fear.

Those 3.

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germinalphraseApr 2022

There is a book called ‘The Gift of Fear’ that explores this topic in more depth for those interested.

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ravenstineDec 2021

Here are mine:

- "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene

- "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker

- "Left of Bang" by Patrick van Horne and Jason Riley

- "Influence" and its follow-up "Pre-suasion" by Robert Cialdini

- "Courage is Calling" by Ryan Holiday (yes it was published this year but I found it helpful)

- "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie

- "No One Ever Told Us That" by John D. Spooner

- "Rich Dad Poor Dad" by Robert Kiyosaki (Not something I'd read today but there was some good things in their for my naive 20 year old self)

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merruaSep 2018

I enjoyed all these. All of them are worth a read.

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neutraltonesFeb 2018

There's an excellent book on this called 'The Gift of Fear'.

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taconFeb 2018

The Gift of Fear is all about listening to your "gut". We have a very highly evolved ability to take in the high bandwidth data from our environment and decide "danger", but living in large anonymous social groups can lead us to suppress this feeling.

The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence

https://www.amazon.com/Other-Survival-Signals-Protect-Violen...

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