
I started with Ableton a few years ago, because it is widely used for electronic music production. Also, my employer provided 50% discount on Ableton products :)
I’d like to also recommend this book https://www.amazon.de/Dance-Music-Manual-Rick-Snoman/dp/0415... if you are interested in theory.
Dance Music Manual (http://www.dancemusicproduction.com) from Rick Snoman, version 4 has been recently released and it's the only book you need (for a time being). I don't own it but Secrets of Dance Music Production looks good too.
Melodics (http://www.melodics.com) is also good for practicing keyboard, if you're interested in learning to play the keyboard.
Music Production is very similar to front-end development, especially Javascript development. Your hardware-software studio is like your bundle system, continuous integration etc. So there are many moving parts to learn and it takes time and many many readings (books, blogs, forums, facebook groups, music store product descriptions etc.). It also takes time to develop your ear and in time you will see that new levels will be opened in your mind, like a game. You will hear more details, you will easily describe the qualities of the sound (is it sine wave or a square, what kind of sonic movements happening, what kind of effects with what kind of settings make that specific sound sound like that)
It's fun, takes time, may take money (if you're interested in hardware studio and premium software plugins). But it's basically so much fun!
The reference on this is Rick Snoman's Dance Music Manual, 3rd ed.
Snoman's "Dance Music Manual" and Shepard "Refining Sound" are good books to start with
(I'm old school about synths and sequencer, i think it's best to start with a knobby hardware synth, microbrute, ms2000, Minilogue, bass station II, sh201, mopho and understand how it's designed to work and how it glitches/fails gracefully)
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9178933
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9518601
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9573471
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9640218
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9635037 (that particular K-S synth isn't online anymore but somebody else put up a demo)
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=10177716 (supercollier, alda et al)
Big fan of Terry Riley, Lamont Young, Philip Glass, Arvo Pärt also.
The book is written with a slant towards the aspiring dance music producer, but, it should be plenty interesting for anyone who wants to have a bit more musical interest in synthesis beyond the purely mathematical angle.