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    Cover of What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

    What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

    Raymond Carver · 1981

    In his second collection of stories, as in his first, Carver's characters are peripheral people--people without education, insight or prospects, people too unimaginative to even give up. Carver celebrates these men and women.

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    9mentions
    8people
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    44% recommend56% neutral

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    1. mike978Nov 2024
      A couple of my favorites from this year, I read a lot (50 to 100 a year)

      Fiction:

      - What We Talk About When We Talk About Love by Raymond Carver

      - Service Model by Adrian Tchaikovsky

      - A Man with One of Those Faces by Caimh Mcdonnell

      - Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro

      - A Desolation Called Peace by Arkady Martine

      - Antimatter Blues by Edward Ashton

      - Where the Body Was by Ed Brubaker and Sean Philips

      Nonfiction:

      - Exiles by Preston Sprinkle

      - Jesus and the Powers by N. T. Wright & Michael F. Bird

      - With All Its Teeth by Joshua S. Porter

      - In Praise of Shadows by Junichiro Tanizaki

      - A Tale of Love and Darkness by Amos Oz

      Copenhagen(play) by Michael Frayn done by BBC Radio, not really a book, but it's great. https://archive.org/details/michael-frayn-copenhagen

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    2. syndacksJul 2023
      Interesting use of Raymond Carver’s short story title “What we talk about when we talk about love”, which was also the background play in Birdman. If you haven’t read any Carver, treat yoself.
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    3. syndacksDec 2020
      I made a flippant comment during book club about how short stories are nothing compared to novels. A friend suggested I check out Raymond Carver which blew my mind.

      His prose is one of a kind and his stories usually leave me floored.

      I recommend the collection, "What we talk about when we talk about love" (the title of one story) -- which, by the way, is the play central to the (excellent) movie Birdman.

      Man, typing this got me excited. Think I'm gonna pour a glass of Teacher's and see if anyone wants to dance.

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    4. jmdukeSep 2015
      I just finished up Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari -- which, while not groundbreaking, was supremely interesting and readable. If you like Aziz's standup, it's basically him playing sociologist for 200 pages.

      Right now I'm going back and forth between Black Hat Python (because I owe it to myself to at least learn a little bit of this stuff) and What We Talk About When We Talk About Love by Carver. Two totally separate ends of the spectrum, but they're both great.

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    5. Boogie_ManOct 2025
      Is the title an intentional mirror of Carver's short story collection "What we talk about when we talk about love"? If so, can someone smarter than me explain what the author means by this connection?
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    6. replwoacauseJan 2024
      Hmm, no credit to Haruki Murakami, who wrote the memoir of the title you yanked “What I Talk About When I Talk About Running”?

      Murakami credited Raymond Carver's collection of short stories called “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love” for inspiring his title. Might be nice for you to include a small mention.

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